If your bowel has started to feel sluggish, your stools have turned hard or painful to pass, or you leave the toilet with the sense that you never quite emptied, can be a sign of constipation. You might also notice bloating that hangs around through the day, or a dull stomach ache that comes and goes. Constipation is common during and after menopause, though it rarely makes it into the conversation. There are practical things that can help.3
What helps day to day
Fibre in practice
Small changes to what you eat and drink can often make a real difference. With fibre, the goal is a level where your stools come smooth, formed, and easier to pass. Adults can aim for around 30g of fibre a day.4
In practice, that might be starting the day with porridge or a wholegrain wheat biscuit cereal, switching to wholemeal or granary bread, and adding fruit across the day. Apples, pears, berries, prunes, and kiwi are all easy choices. Building fibre up slowly gives your gut time to adjust.5
Staying hydrated
Fibre needs fluid to do its job. Without enough water, adding more fibre can leave things feeling worse. Aim for at least 6 to 8 mugs of fluid a day, around 1.5 to 2 litres. Keeping your fluids up helps soften the stool so it passes more easily.6
Gentle movement and digestion
Regular movement helps keep the bowel active, and a daily walk is often enough to make a difference. You do not need anything intense. When it comes to bowel regularity, doing a little often tends to matter more than doing a lot.7
Responding to the urge
When you feel the urge to go, try not to put it off. The longer stool sits in the bowel, the more water it draws back in, so it turns harder and drier by the time you get there. Going when the urge arrives is a small habit that can make a noticeable difference.8
Toilet positioning and the pelvic floor
How you sit on the toilet affects how easily stool passes, and straining puts extra pressure on your pelvic floor muscles. Not straining to open your bowels is really important, especially around menopause, because your pelvic floor muscles, which help support the bowel, can weaken as we age as well.9
Sit fully on the seat rather than hovering. Put your feet on a low footstool or a stack of books so your knees sit higher than your hips. From there, lean forward and rest your forearms or elbows on your thighs, let your tummy relax outwards, and keep your back straight. This position lets the pelvic floor muscles soften and straightens the passage the stool moves through, so it comes more easily and you need to strain less.10
Why constipation is more common after menopause
If your gut feels different now from how it used to work, hormones are part of the picture. Around 12% of people in the UK report constipation, and the hormonal changes of menopause play a part in it. It helps explain why your gut may feel different now compared with before.1
When to raise it with your GP
Everyday changes often ease constipation, but if things are not improving, or it keeps coming back, it is worth speaking to your GP. If it has been going on for a while, there is no need to wait it out and hope it settles on its own.11
If you are not sure whether your symptoms need looking at, your GP is the right person to ask. You can also call NHS 111 for guidance if you want help deciding what to do next.