Labour is hard to fully picture until you are in it. The tightening of contractions, the deep backache that builds and eases, the slow steady move towards birth. These are the physical markers of a process that tends to follow a broadly predictable path. Knowing the stages of labour, and what to expect at each one, gives you a clearer map of what your body is doing and why.1
The first stage of labour
The first stage starts when contractions begin and ends once your cervix is fully open. It is the longest stage, and it breaks down into three phases: the latent phase, established labour, and transition.26
The latent phase
The latent phase, sometimes called early labour, is when your cervix softens and opens up to 4cm. You may notice cramp-like pains, much like period pain, a dull backache, a 'show' (a small amount of mucus that has been sealing your cervix), or your waters breaking as a gush or a trickle. Contractions at this point are often irregular, both in how long they last and how far apart they come.7
The latent phase can last many hours, and for some it stretches past a day. This is normal. Staying at home during this time is generally advised. You may find it helps to rest, move gently, take a warm bath, or use a TENS machine (transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation, which sends small pulses through pads on your skin). Paracetamol can ease the discomfort if it suits you. Follow the directions on the packet, and check with your midwife if you are unsure.8
Established labour
Established labour starts when your cervix reaches 4cm. By now contractions feel stronger and longer, and they settle into a more regular pattern, often coming every three to five minutes. This is usually the point where your midwife or maternity unit will ask you to come in.310
With a first baby, established labour often lasts around eight hours, and it is unlikely to go beyond 18. If you have given birth before, it tends to be shorter, around five hours on average. Every labour is different, so these are typical ranges rather than fixed timelines.11
Transition
Towards the end of the first stage, as your cervix opens from around 8cm to the full 10cm, you reach the phase often called transition. This is usually the most intense part of labour, and also the shortest. You may feel shaky, sick, or overwhelmed, with a strong urge to push. You may feel like you cannot keep going, and that often means birth is close. Let your midwife guide you before you start pushing, especially if full dilation has not yet been confirmed.12
The second stage of labour
The second stage begins at full dilation (10cm) and ends with the birth of your baby. It comes in two phases. In the first, the passive phase, your baby moves further down the birth canal on its own, without you needing to push. In the second, the active phase, you work with your contractions to push your baby out.413
The active pushing phase can take up to three hours with a first baby, and up to two hours if you have given birth before. These are upper limits for typical births; every labour progresses at its own pace. Your midwife and the wider team keep a close eye on how things are progressing the whole way through.14
The third stage of labour
Once your baby is born, the third stage is the delivery of the placenta. There are two ways to manage this stage, and it is worth talking both through with your midwife before labour begins, so your preference can be noted down.515
Active management involves an injection of oxytocin (a hormone that makes the womb contract) given soon after the birth. It prompts your uterus to tighten and push the placenta out, usually within 30 minutes. This is the approach routinely offered, because it lowers the risk of heavy bleeding after birth.16
Physiological management uses no medication, relying on your body's own contractions to deliver the placenta. This can take up to an hour. It is not suitable in every situation, as for some it carries a higher risk of heavy bleeding. Your midwife can help you weigh this up and talk through what fits your situation.17
What support looks like throughout
During the latent phase at home, your main support comes from rest, familiar comfort measures, and being able to call your midwife or maternity unit whenever something concerns you. Once you are in established labour, your midwife stays with you, keeping an eye on you and your baby and guiding you through each phase. In the second stage, you are supported to push at a pace that feels right for you. Through the third stage, your midwife manages the delivery of the placenta and checks that you are well.
If you have questions about your labour, or want to go through your options in more detail, raise them at your next antenatal appointment or contact your midwifery team directly.